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Monday
27
January
Funeral Mass
10:00 am
Monday, January 27, 2025
Our Lady Of Lourdes Church
1 Eagle Rock Avenue
West Orange Township, New Jersey, United States
Monday
27
January
Burial
11:15 am
Monday, January 27, 2025
Gate of Heaven Cemetery
225 Ridgedale Ave
East Hanover, New Jersey, United States
973-887-0286


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Monday, January 27, 2025
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The sweetest angel. I can just picture you tearing it up in that Mustang up in heaven—just make sure to take the emergency brake off before you take off!
When I think back on my childhood, so much of it was spent with you, especially in OB3. We’d walk on the beach, gather seashells, get ice cream, and have fun at Ben Franklin’s or the boardwalk. My childhood was full of love, laughter, and those simple moments that meant everything.
Some of my best memories are of us in the car. I’ll never forget the day you taught me how to drive the Mustang, and you told me I was the only grandchild you'd ever trust to teach. I had to ask you to repeat that because I thought I’d misheard, but no—you really said it! I was so surprised and touched.
I spent a lot of time with you over the past few years, and I loved every minute of it. I’ll always remember showing up at your house just to surprise you. The second I walked in, you’d jump up from your chair and wrap me in one of your big hugs.
You always had something new to teach me. I remember one time, you drove me in Lexi’s Jeep Wrangler to pick her up at the airport. We took the scenic route through all the back roads, and you told me stories about Newark—everything that used to be there, the history. I was amazed at how much you remembered. And even though we were listening to AM radio, which I didn’t even know still worked, it didn’t matter. It was just perfect. I didn’t care if I wasn’t a fan of the music, I loved spending that time with you, just listening to your stories.
I think I was the only person you ever asked for help. But I did not ever mind it. You truly thought I was brilliant of some sort, especially with technology. I wish your phone worked in heaven.
You were always so full of life and wisdom, and I’m grateful for every moment I got to spend with you.
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JoAnn Mercer posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2025
The Farley Family:
The past couple of years Matt and I shared many catch up phone calls and at times they included my husband John as well. Matt and I went back and forth with many childhood memories. We shared about our memories of childhood trips with Aunt Gretta and Gramma Flammer and our trips to Forrest Hill Park with his dad and my mom. My Uncle Matt was the BEST uncle a child could have asked for. He made the best picnic lunches and we always got dipped ice cream cones to enjoy on our car ride home. Matt revealed the funniest and most mischievious episode that I never knew about on one call we had. My Aunt Gretta and Gramma lived at 2 No. Park Dr for some time. Well, Gramma took a nap every afternoon so one day Matty snuck into her room and tied her foot to the post at the end of the bed. I laughed and laughed still when I think of this episode. Gramma did not get mad at him either! He truly had fun with her; in fact we all did. I think Matt turned out like his great dad who was so loved by me. Matt was a true Blessing from God to all of us.
Matt and I always wound up laughing together which we truly both needed including John at times. We started school together at kindergarten in OLL and graduated from WOHS together. Matt was a brother to Margretta and me. He supported us through lots of our own family hurts and the loss of our father and mother and Margretta's daughter Chrissy. Matt had a quality like no other, a quiet perfect strength.
Lately with the poor health which was present for him we shared our Faith in God and how and what we were taught as young ones. Matt had a peace with God that was a strength within him.
I am at a loss now but I know he is not in pain anymore. I don't have an opportunity anymore to reconnect with all of you but know my prayers and John's are with you all.
Our Sympathy,
JoAnn & John Mercer
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Carol Lundgren/ Fanslau posted a condolence
Thursday, January 23, 2025
One of the things I will always remember about Uncle Matty is how kind and generous and diplomatic he was. He would do anything for you, even if he thought you were entirely wrong or crazy!
He once drove me and two of my friends to NY state to participate in a three day breast cancer walk. My sister was struggling with breast cancer and he knew why we were walking and was a contributor to the fundraising. The morning of the walk there was torrential rains and the weather prediction showed no sign for improvement for the next few days. I recall him calling me at the crack of dawn to see if we were still on for the walk and how he kindly, and in a gentle “Uncle Matty” way reminded me that we already raised all the money for the cause, all without stating the obvious that we were all crazy for even attempting to think we would or could walk 60 miles over the next three days in the horrific conditions we would face. In retrospect we should have listened to his subtle hints as to how crazy we were! Lol!
He of course would never have said it to us directly but did slip his card to both my friends directly and said call me if you change your mind! Diplomatic as I said… “ don’t tell your friend, my niece she is crazy but if you all need help…I will come!”
They both followed me blindly as good friends would do but kept his card tight in their hands knowing that “Uncle Matty” would come rescue them if they needed to overtake my determination to walk the full 60 miles in the rain. They did not need to call him because we all caved together and they called off the walk but we all knew that if we had to call him he would have come to save us without judgement or question!
He was just that person, no matter his opinion if he loved you or was a friend he would always have your back! Diplomatically of course.
I have had the privilege to know his son Matt Jr as an adult and see Uncle Matty’s qualities in him. Kindness, calm, peace, generosity and love of family. His legacy will live on with his children.
Recently he called me concerned about my mom when she didn’t answer the door when he stopped by. To visit. Always the big brother even when he was the youngest.
He will be missed by all. God bless and remember he was someone we should all try to emulate! We love you Uncle Matty!
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The family of Matthew Joseph Farley Sr. uploaded a photo
Thursday, January 23, 2025
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